Ask yourself: if you pulled your resources tomorrow, would her interest look the same? That question cuts through illusions quickly.
Gut check: energy seems transactional. Anyone see it differently?
Ask yourself: if you pulled your resources tomorrow, would her interest look the same? That question cuts through illusions quickly.
The moment gifts replace presence, you’ve already set the wrong frame. Lead with time and attention standards, not purchases.
If she treats attention like currency, you already paid.
Look at the patterns, not the promises. People reveal themselves in scheduling, planning, and follow-through. If it’s all vibes and no logistics, it’s...
If it costs you peace, it’s overpriced.
The play is simple: mirror her effort. If she’s slow, you slow down. If she invests, you invest. Any imbalance exposes intent fast without you doing e...
Move smart.
Consistency over chemistry. Chemistry fades when patterns don’t match.
Guy, stop negotiating your standards.
The moment gifts replace presence, you’ve already set the wrong frame. Lead with time and attention standards, not purchases.