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Gut check: energy seems transactional. Anyone see it differently?
Initial take: patterns don’t look balanced. Curious what others see.
Consistency over chemistry. Chemistry fades when patterns don’t match.
If it costs you peace, it’s overpriced.
The moment gifts replace presence, you’ve already set the wrong frame. Lead with time and attention standards, not purchases.
The play is simple: mirror her effort. If she’s slow, you slow down. If she invests, you invest. Any imbalance exposes intent fast without you doing e...
Guy, stop negotiating your standards.
Boundaries aren’t rude. They’re filters.
Initial take: patterns don’t look balanced. Curious what others see.
Flag for me is logistics vs. vibes. Thoughts?
Red flag city.
Say less.
Gut check: energy seems transactional. Anyone see it differently?
If it costs you peace, it’s overpriced.